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Preparation for mediation is imperative

Many divorces are resolved through mediation. This process is appropriate for people who can work together to resolve a host of issues. It isn't something that should be considered if there is any type of abuse in the relationship.

If you and your ex are going to go through mediation, you should make sure that you are prepared when you head into the first session. This isn't always easy to do, but the more you prepare, the less stress you are likely going to feel during the process.

Gather applicable documents

You need to have an idea of the financial state of the marriage when you are handling property division negotiations. Bring documentation for the marital assets and debts. These should be as recent as possible so that you can present an accurate account. Make sure to bring the retirement account statements and similar items. The goal is to make sure that you walk away with what is rightfully yours.

Make your lists and double check them

Once you know what property has to be divided, you can make a list that outlines what property you'd like to keep. Think beyond the emotional attachment. Instead, consider how these assets can help or harm you in the future. Assets that come with upkeep costs like insurance or taxes might be need to be bypassed.

Keep an open mind

In all matters related to the divorce or child custody, you should keep an open mind. Mediation is a process that is based on mutual willingness to negotiate. You should make sure that you are considering the suggestions made by your ex. This doesn't mean that you have to give up all the things that you want, it just means that you might have to go about getting them in a different way.

Control your emotions

Since the mediation sessions are negotiations, some exes try to take advantage of this by employing something akin to bullying tactics. Don't let your ex control you. Remember that this is simply a step that is necessary to finalize the divorce. If things do get heated, you can ask to speak to the mediator alone. In some cases, the mediator might act as a go-between so that you and your ex don't have to deal directly with each other.

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